I used to think conflict in brotherhood was something to be avoided or pacified, but now I see it as a safe sandbox that God uses to help us deal with past wounds and internal conflict. When we face conflict with a brother, we not only resolve the immediate issue, but we also have an opportunity to grow and mature and face past wounds. I’ve experienced this firsthand and it’s been amazing. So now I don’t avoid conflict in relationships, because it may just be the very thing that the Lord is using to help me become more whole and free. Have you had a similar experience?